This is the one day out of the year that we set aside to celebrate dads. We may take them to movies or dinner, buy them a present and a card, put on a big BBQ, or something else. Whatever we do, it's to make them feel special. And why not? They help raise us and show leadership through tough times. Of course, some dads do their jobs better than others. Myself, I've been blessed with a man whose dedication to his family is exceeded only by his dedication to God. He's a good man, and I'm glad to call him my dad. However, I know there are many people who aren't blessed the same way, who aren't on good terms with or who don't even know their dads. Yet I also know this. Whoever your dad is, whether an excellent man or someone who barely deserves the title, you have a Father, and His love is far more reliable than any dad's.
You may have gathered that I'm talking about God. It makes sense, since He's often called "The Father" and His Son Jesus referred to Him that way all the time. However, what exactly does it mean when we call God our Father? That's not a one sentence answer. You see, each of us looks at our dad a certain way, so when we call God our Father we may be tempted to see God through the same lens as we view our earthly dad. Such a perspective can skewer our view of God. So the question to ask yourself is:
What do you expect from your dad?
Time
Encouragement
DirectivesYou may have gathered that I'm talking about God. It makes sense, since He's often called "The Father" and His Son Jesus referred to Him that way all the time. However, what exactly does it mean when we call God our Father? That's not a one sentence answer. You see, each of us looks at our dad a certain way, so when we call God our Father we may be tempted to see God through the same lens as we view our earthly dad. Such a perspective can skewer our view of God. So the question to ask yourself is:
What do you expect from your dad?
Time
Encouragement
Mercy
Grace
Comfort
Keep in mind I'm not asking what you'd expect from the perfect dad. I'm asking what you expect from yours. This isn't a survey, just a point of reference for you.
Now that we've established that, let's take a look at Joshua, chapter 1. You may know all about this chapter, but in case you don't, I'll summarize quickly the backdrop it takes place in. Moses, the leader of nomadic Israel, has just died after leading for 40+ years, and in so doing has passed the baton to Joshua, the new leader charged with bringing Israel into the permanent dwelling God has promised them. This is no easy task, even less so when mourning one's friend and role model. We pick up the story:
"After the death of Moses the servant of the Lord, it came to pass that the Lord spoke to Joshua the son of Nun, Moses’ assistant, saying: “Moses My servant is dead. Now therefore, arise, go over this Jordan, you and all this people, to the land which I am giving to them—the children of Israel. Every place that the sole of your foot will tread upon I have given you, as I said to Moses. From the wilderness and this Lebanon as far as the great river, the River Euphrates, all the land of the Hittites, and to the Great Sea toward the going down of the sun, shall be your territory. No man shall be able to stand before you all the days of your life; as I was with Moses, so I will be with you. I will not leave you nor forsake you. Be strong and of good courage, for to this people you shall divide as an inheritance the land which I swore to their fathers to give them. Only be strong and very courageous, that you may observe to do according to all the law which Moses My servant commanded you; do not turn from it to the right hand or to the left, that you may prosper wherever you go. This Book of the Law shall not depart from your mouth, but you shall meditate in it day and night, that you may observe to do according to all that is written in it. For then you will make your way prosperous, and then you will have good success. Have I not commanded you? Be strong and of good courage; do not be afraid, nor be dismayed, for the Lord your God is with you wherever you go.” (Joshua 1:1-9 NKJV, boldface added)
The reason some parts of this passage are bold is because I wanted to highlight some of the encouragement God gives Joshua. You'll notice that God never says "This will be easy-peasy-rice-and-cheesy". He never says "Do what you want. I'll take it from here." No, God is very straightforward about what He wants from Joshua. However, He intersperses His command with a promise of success, conquest, and, most importantly, His presence. He promised not to leave Joshua, and when you consider the amazing feats that Joshua performed afterwards, from lengthening a day to taking down Jericho, you realize the seriousness of God's promise.
God was with Joshua, giving him the directive, the encouragement, the comfort, and the time that Joshua needed. God never even specifically mentions anywhere in that passage that He is God the Father, yet here we can see Him being just that, a Father promising to be with His son through whatever may come.
This isn't pie in the sky. Life with family is a challenge, and a life with God is not an exception. Yet when things seem difficult He is first and foremost the one we can rely on to reassure and protect us from anything. That's what He does.
If you're a dad you know the value of your children. It's likely that you spend time protecting them from things as varied as immature boys (he'll be lucky to get the time of day from you let alone see your daughter) to peer pressure (no, your son does not have to join the baseball team just because all his friends are doing it). That's in the job description, right? Any disaster you can avert, any pain you can prevent, you'll do it.
Now, imagine you have an enemy. You've done nothing to this guy, yet he persists in provoking you anyway he can. He badmouths you, curses in your face, and does every possible thing he can to annoys you. His recent offenses have actually earned him a death sentence, and the only way to save him is to give up your child. Do you do it?
This Father's Day, don't forget to celebrate your Heavenly Father. He gave you His all so you could call Him "Daddy". One day you'll see Him. When that day comes, you'll see Him as more than a Master, King, or even Friend. You'll see Him as your Father, because He wanted you enough to be just that.
Happy Father's Day.
(NKJV Means New King James Version)
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